Perception of Helplessness
Helplessness is defined in the dictionary as a "powerlessness revealed by an inability to act." Alternative definitions are: "a feeling of being unable to manage" or "the state of needing help from something." Helplessness is part and parcel of human existence. Given the natural order of life's process, helplessness is a reaction to traumatic events in our own lives. These are mental, emotional and physical anguish. In addition, helplessness is also caused by sensitivity to the sufferings of others. After the events of September 11, 2001, most Americans felt helpless. This helplessness was from the recognition of the fragility of life. Helplessness was also the inability to seek immediate retribution to the grievous loss to those even far removed from most of us. In most cases however, helplessness comes from events that are associated with self and those very near. Illness is a prime example. This is particularly stark in cases of suffering from incurable diseases like cancer and AIDS. The feeling of helplessness has been implicated as a hindrance to cure and remission. The antidote to helplessness is coping. In a study of several Norwegian women whose husbands were recently deceased, it was found that coping with a problem, the health of the individual and anxiety and depression were strongly correlated. (Lindstrom, 1997) The author, Lindstrom, averred that these three factors were at the vertices of a triangle. This essay will deal with aspects of helplessness and coping as shown by the current literature.
Helplessness is generally characterized by the idea that the person has lost control of his or her life and is merely dependent upon fate. This loss of a sense of personal power is particularly strong. A person thus "debilitated" cannot make plans or set well defined goals for his or herself. Depression is common place; as is the absence of self-reliance. Such a person generally is possessed of a negative outlook of life. He or she never meets life head on. He or she is generally passive when challenged. A helpless person looks to or perceives that surroundings and other people have greater control of their lives. Such a person does not see many reasons to live. There is a definitive lack of self-fulfillment and self-actualization.
In understanding helplessness, one must be able to differentiate between actual helplessness and learned helplessness. Actual helplessness is the feeling that there is no recourse. The best example of truly helpless is a person who has to jump from a burning ship into frigid waters. No matter what the choice, death is inevitable. Even within actual helplessness, the acuity of the feeling will vary between individuals based on age and culture. In explicating helplessness, a distinction should be made between actual helplessness and a mere feeling of helplessness. The latter is imagined to be real. One might consider that the first is objective and the second, subjective.
The perception of helplessness cannot be determined as a specific disorder. It is often a combination of factors some of which might be emotional disorders like depression. In addition, culture (suicide is considered honorable in Japanese society), physical illness and a complacent attitude can all contribute. Sometimes, perceived helplessness then goes into the realm of learned helplessness. This is an extension of the experiment made famous by Ivan Petrovich Pavlov's dog. (Seligman, 2000) He provided a negative stimulus to dogs. These dogs were placed in a shuttle box whose floor produced a harmless shock. The dogs were restrained to prevent escape. A bell tone accompanied this shock. After the learning phase, when the dog was placed in a situation where escape was possible, it did not respond to the bell that signaled the administration of a shock. Even when shocked the dog made no attempt to escape. When an "unlearned" dog was placed in the shuttle box and shocked, it immediately jumped over the fence.
Very often, with learned helplessness the "helpless" is used as an excuse for not taking charge of oneself. The person often uses helplessness to manipulate others into providing for him or her. Evocation of sympathy by presenting a sense of incompetence or a fear of succeeding is characteristic of learned helplessness. Learned helplessness is often a mask for failure to take responsibility.
Knowing that there is a psychological component to helplessness, one must explore phobias, which are irrational fears. In a sense therefore, phobias go hand in hand with helplessness. Agoraphobics are afraid of placing themselves in positions where they might be judged. Simple phobias are those in which the source of the fear can be readily defined or identified. These are simple not because the feeling of helplessness is less acute. They are simple because the source of the...
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